About Erik & Melisa

Who are we? We are weird and wacky, attached, no nonsense parents of five amazing children. Three are grown and living on their own and we are here parenting and raising the youngest two. We love spending time together and we love teaching families how to enjoy spending time together - like REALLY enjoy it. Our desire is to send children into the world that other people will enjoy being around and all that begins with us.

Chances are we are not too different than you, we've just been around the block a few times and know what works and what doesn't. Parenting and partnering can be tricky so we hope you'll enjoy walking this path with us.

Erik and Melisa are also the owners of Waldorf Essentials, a homeschooling company that provides homeschool curriculum, training and mentoring to families that want to homeschool with the Waldorf method.

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United We Stand, Divided We Fall

You’ve probably heard the phrase “United we stand, divided we fall,” somewhere, at some time in your life. That phrase couldn’t be truer than at home. The things that divide can be pervasive, sometimes subtle and require mindfulness and being present to rise above it. We can shield ourselves and our families from most of these things through finding balance. Through our work, we have met couples whose lives seem to be drudgery, they feel like they are exhausted butlers for little people. Some couples may admit that what they felt for each other and about themselves is a fleeting memory as they grind away at one busy day after another. We often hear about how challenging finding the right work/life balance can be. We can’t spend our attention fully in one place without it waning somewhere else. It’s like those Mario games where when you look at the ghost it stays still but when you look away it creeps towards you. When things start to go off kilter, we can very much ask our...

Parents Who THRIVE becomes Peaceful Foundations

If you've followed us with any consistency over the last few years outside of Waldorf Essentials, then you might have noticed that we have been scattered at best with putting together a cohesive space for our marriage & parent coaching. That ends now. With the helps of some amazing business coaches, we are finally seeing our love for helping families become a reality as we do a bit a shuffling, a little re-branding and a LOT of reaching out to families. You can find us on social media on the links above. You can also sign up for our email list on the link above. We are dedicated to bringing you the best possible parenting and partnering advice that you can actually use... like TODAY. We don't work in theory.... we work in reality! Share us with your friends that can use a little boost and thank you for sticking with us! Erik & Melisa

What your doula didn't tell you & your mother couldn't get you to hear...

I need you. I need you both. I need you to both love each other and like each other. I need you to show me how to love my future mate. I need you to show me how I should treat my friends. I need you to show me what language is okay. I need you to put me to bed early. I need you to go to bed early so you are ready to see me in the morning. I need you to be in charge. I need you to tell me no sometimes, even when I get mad. I gain my security in knowing what will happen tomorrow, talk to me. I like to do the same things over and over. I like to stay home and go for walks and meet people in our neighborhood. I like to be fed well, even when I complain. I really like to help you cook and bake. I need hugs, a lot. When I am sad and when I am happy. You need hugs too. I need you to be present with me. Can you please put away your phone and talk to me? Do you know that I will be grown before you know it and I want to ha...

Peaceful Foundations

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